💐 How to Be a Ray of Positivity as an Introvert (Without Forcing the Vibes)
Midoriya (IYKYK) has been living rent-free in my mind lately. If he can show up despite the odds what am I scared of? 💕
One thought that keeps popping up and puts my mind in overdrive is “how can I be a ray of positivity… when I’m naturally introverted, reserved, and often stuck in my own head?”
I’m surrounded by radiant, soulful girlies — you know the ones. They light up a room, give the best hugs, have Pinterest energy IRL, they’re full of sparkle and soul. Laughing loudly, dancing freely, and somehow always know what to say while I’m spiralling over something insignificant that happened in 2022. I want to shine too, but sometimes whispers come out instead of roars.
🧸 Midoriya Is Me, I Am Midoriya
I’ve been watching My Hero Academia lately (91 episodes in, 3 more seasons to go, my BF should be proud 😂). But back to Midoriya, he’s trying to figure out how to live up to the symbol of hope — like, how do you carry the weight of a legacy while staying true to yourself?
He doesn’t have the flashiest quirk. He overthinks. He doubts. He cares deeply.
And still… he chooses to show up. To keep growing. To live up to the symbol — in his own way.
And I can relate, that’s me trying to thrive in London as a creative. I'm trying to figure out what it means to shine in a city full of bold, dreamy energy — while still being, well... me.
😅 Overthinking doesn’t count as cardio, but it’s exhausting
The truth is, I spent way too long believing to stand out meant being the loudest, boldest, most visible girlie in the room. But the older I get the more I realise there’s quiet magic too.
You can be the kind of girlie:
Who radiates softness.
Who listens deeply.
Who brings peace to the chaotic group chat.
You don’t have to be the sunshine to be impactful, the moon shines quietly and yet understands us much more.
💖 Being the Light Doesn’t Mean Being the Loudest
What if we redefined what being “a light” even means? 🤔
It doesn’t have to be confetti cannons and viral moments. Sometimes, it’s just:
A kind message at the right moment
Showing up with intention
Creating something honest
Saying no when your energy is low
Asking someone how they really feel
You don’t have to sparkle like everyone else. You get to radiate your own kind of warm glow. It’s not about changing your personality. It’s about honouring your energy while still taking up space. It’s about building your confidence in micro-moments — saying yes to the invite, starting a conversation, sharing your art, wearing the outfit you usually save for "someday."
💌 The Challenge: 30 Days of Doing It Anyway
All of this has led me to one thing: if I want change, I can’t just talk about it — I need to act on it.
That’s why I’m starting 30-days of doing it anyway, a challenge that prioritises stepping out of your comfort zone. Not some scary TikTok-level social experiment — but cute, lowkey, self-growth challenges that make you stretch a little bit each day. Think:
Sitting alone at a café and journaling (not caring what people think)
Asking someone where they got their outfit (an icebreaker that could turn into a conversation)
Sharing something on IG that feels honest without editing it 10x
Going to an event solo and not pretending to be on your phone the whole time 😭
I’ll be posting prompts every day, sharing my little wins and awkward moments, and inviting YOU to join in. Nothing extreme. Just small, intentional choices that say: “I’m here. I’m trying. I matter.”
💐 Self-Love Prompt of the Week:
What would my life look like if I trusted that who I already am is enough — even in the quiet moments?
Journal on it. Whisper it to yourself in the mirror. Or screenshot it and make it your phone background. You deserve a life that reflects you — not a version of you that’s performing all the time.
If you're in, drop a 💖 or message me — I’ll be creating a soft community & accountability circle so we can support each other, think cosy group chat vibes with pep talks and encouragement (and maybe even meet up if you're in London 👀)
Let’s stop waiting until we feel “ready” to live fully. Let’s start — awkwardly, gently, together, as we are.
You don’t have to be loud to be seen. You don’t have to glow like the sun to be a light in someone’s life.
Your energy — calm, deep, intentional — is a gift.
Rooting for us, with love, matcha, & anime metaphors,
— Tajinder 🥰